"The price you pay for holding onto hate..."

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“Hate is an invisible chain.”

When you don’t let go of hate, you let the thing or person you hate maintain control over you. You allow the hatred to keep the channels of negative energy open, sucking out positive emotions and holding you back from true happiness.

Cut off the hate and move on! When you cleanse your mind and soul of grudges and negative thoughts, you make new room for positive emotions and joy. Take a moment today to consciously let go of all hatred. Savor the new energy that you’ll feel bursting through to take its place!

I HATE NO ONE. I SURROUND MYSELF WITH GOOD, CARING, THOUGHTFUL, UNDERSTANDING PEOPLE AND THOSE WHO HAVE TARNISHED MY LIFE AT SOME POINT. I DON'T HATE THEM, I FEEL SORRY FOR THEM, IN FACT, I WISH THAT THEY WOULD LOOK DEEPER WITHIN THEMSELVES TO FIND THE REAL REASON AS TO WHY THEY BEHAVE IN THE WAYS THEY DO. IN MY HONEST OPINION, FRIENDS/FAMILY, OKAY, YOU MAY NOT 'LIKE' NECESSARILY WHAT THEY DO FROM TIME TO TIME, BUT CRITICISING AND DEMEANING IS NOT GOING TO SOLVE ANYTHING. NO ONE IS PERFECT. LETTING GO OF ANY BAD FEELINGS REALLY IS THE BEST THING IN THE WORLD.

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