That was different.

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In a very GOOD way.

I have just had a 2 1/2 hour chat with my Stinks biological fathers' wife. She's been round for coffee and it was unbelievably pleasant. She is so nice.

Now that Stinky and his real dad are getting to know each other, i thought, it would only be right for me to meet up with his wife, just so when Stink goes there for dinner (he's been invited) i'd met her and at least got to know her a bit.

We chatted like we'd known each other for years. She talked with Stink and said what a lovely young man he is (well, of course he is, he's mine!!), and i am now fully at ease that she'll treat him well.

This is another weight off my mind.

Everything WILL fall into place in the end..things ARE slowly coming together.

Comments

Robert said…
What you did for your son, making it easy for him to grow a relationship with his dad - that's the action of a really, good mother. I wish all mothers were that good!
12/02/2010, 16:45
Sarah♥ said…
Wow - that's means a lot Robert. I didn't think of it as being a good mother, i just want everyone to get on well...and i believe that things will be just fine :)

x
12/02/2010, 16:50
Robert said…
That's what i mean about being a good mother - your instincts are right. Having mum & dad getting on well is sooooo important for kids. Lots of parents want to "own" their kids and don't like to share. Good mothers do what you do.
13/02/2010, 00:15
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