CLOSURE. THE END!!!!!
Where it all started... Say Hi and Goodbye to my EX HUSBAND. This is the precious man that i loved for all those years but who treated me like dog shite... I'm only really posting these pictures because i LOVE LOVE LOVE my wedding dress. It was EXACTLY what i wanted. Gorgeous...stunning...i still love it now, rammed upstairs in the loft, screwed up in a ball somewhere :) Don't i look happy? Unfortunately by the end of the day, i was crying!
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Unfortunately, crappy therapists seem to be more the norm than the exception, at least in my case.
Take care hon! xx
Didn't have to pay for it no, NHS. What a load of shite though. I don't even think he was awake for most of the appointment.
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I'm watching your youtube channel for more than a year now and I really, really like your videos. (Just want to mention that somewhere!) You are absolutely great =)
The story about that stupid doctor made me really angry, WHAT A STUPID MAN. That is the kind of help you absolutely don't need, because it is not any kind of help! Seems as if he didn't understand a single word what you told him. Forget that stupid man, that appointment... It's sad but true: Out there, there are too many stupid unhelpful doctors. The good ones are rare, but they exist!
Wish you all the best.
I had a visit off the mental health team guy, and he was very quiet, and just asked me questions, which I answered, and ended up crying :( - I did wonder if he was ok because he never said anything comforting when I cried, but you know, these people see so much, and to be honest they are there to listen to us. He is visiting me at home
again next week, so will see what happens then.
All the best!
xx
I am beginning to wonder if there are any good mental health specialists. I live in a very small town, so i think we're lucky to even have a mental health clinic here, but as for who work there, they are very questionable.
Going back to 1993 now, i use to see a psychoanalyst. Basically she would 'analyse' me...usually that would entail us sitting there for 10-20 minutes in silence and her watching me....until one of us (usually) me spoke. Really really unnerving.
Anyway - that's all done now and i will not going back ;-)
xxx
Good luck with your appointments...
:)
yeah, maybe it would be easier to find a good mental health specialst when you'd live in a big city. I live in the countryside (Germany), the next "big" city (it's actually just a small city) is 30 minutes away (by car). I once tried to get some help (I'm suffering from eating disorders/anorexia), but the therapists in my region do have long, long waiting lists. Which means that you have to wait about 6 month or longer for getting some help. That was, what my doctor told me years ago, when I was on a absolutely low level and wanted "just" some help. "You have to wait about six month..." And I was just thinking "Six month...is that a joke? I'm not feeling as if I would be still alive then. I need help NOW" That was really frustrating. And I could never trie to get some help again (just can't do that...). Now, 6 years later, I'm still alive, still ill... But surviving ;-)