Actions speak louder than words.
2 year anniversary today. What have i done, anything nice? Well.....the short answer to that is NO!
My boyfriend has a headache and has stayed at home all day and i have been frustrated and pissed off, so all i have done is pick my face.
I think THIS speaks volumes.
Had enough.
My boyfriend has a headache and has stayed at home all day and i have been frustrated and pissed off, so all i have done is pick my face.
I think THIS speaks volumes.
Had enough.
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maybe you can celebrate 2moz or another day and do something nice,and stop picking your beautiful face ;0(
sending loadsa love and hugs ur way sweetie xx♥xx
I don't think either of us have done the anniversary thing though, I doubt either of us could even put a date on it.. which is probably a key factor in why we've never bothered!!
I used to get Valentines cards, now he doesnt bother (and hasnt done for about 4 yrs).. so neither do I.
Ive had so many Christmas's and other events ruined too though. I spent one Mothers day in bed (came home that wk from the ectopic), he spent the day on the computer in the other room so I had more than one reason to be miserable.. then that turned into a fight because he couldnt see why I wanted company and he told me he didnt want to be bored sat with me!
He ruined the last one picking a fight with me.. same with the last 2 Christmas's.. even new Years day was spent arguing till 4am.
He buys me Birthday presents, I'll give him that.. but taking the day off to spend with me.. never happens. They either don't think, or don't care enough.
If you think you're compromising too much (not talking about this, but in general).. then think about what you really want.
Having said that.. maybe he just didnt realise it was important to you? I think blokes stop at Bdays and Crimbo.. Valentines may be a push if you're lucky! I would say its how he is with you in general and not just on this day that matters.. but from what you say about him Im not quite sure that counts either :o/
Life is too short Missy. You're beautiful and deserve all the happiness there is.
xx
Clearly i am expecting way too much!
Think the thing is here, i don't ask for much, i've compromised on everything that i want...ONE day, our anniversary, i would have thought i deserved a little more.
As far as what you say, grrr...that would have pissed me off what you had to go through then sitting alone in separate rooms, i would have been stomping around like a right little madam. If neither of you do cards then i guess it's not so bad, i bought the bf's card last week, in fact, i got my mother to take me up the town specially so he had one, he didn't even buy one.
It's funny how most special 'occasions' are ruined by arguing.
I dunno what to do...
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Hope you're well...
x
Have you told him youre disappointed?
Theres nothing worse than feeling like youre not allowed to express your true self (maybe this isn't the case though and you can tell him?).
Have you thought about having a break for a bit, see what that brings?
And no, def no expecting too much, not when he says hes taking you out. Ok, so he has a headache.. why not come and chill out with you for an hour though.
I dunno.. Men!
xxxx